How to survive dating a soldier


03-Oct-2016 19:20

You can say you are dedicated and can handle it but until it happens it’s only an idea. He may be a reservist, he may have had a bad relationship because of his military status, his finances may be a mess, oh yes, and people half his age and twice as fast as he is may be shooting at him.

Life was perfect for me in Southern California and if you told me in March 2005 that in two years I’d be divorced and living in Tajikistan I’d have sent you out for drug testing. While I was deployed and had downtime I was able to sign up on dating sites. Right you will feel imprisoned by your previous brash decisions. Their wife died and a relative in a far off country is watching their child. In reality if something major happens like that while in service we get home for leave.

My boyfriend is stationed an hour away, and we only see each other on weekends. So if you get the big invite to meet them, treat it as though you were meeting his family. Don’t drink to much, don’t discuss politics or religion. Your man’s showing you off to some of the most important people in his life; do him proud. Making friends with the guys who serve with my boyfriend made Army gatherings twice the fun. Yes, we all know that a man who takes charge is appealing.

So I spend my weekdays going out with my pals, catching up with my mom, and working on that promotion. Bonus: Meeting their girlfriends and wives provided me with a whole new support group. But a military man spends most of his time having other people telling him where to go, when to be there, and how to be dressed.

My boyfriend is a soldier in the United States Army. Understand that these guys have to deal with things that the average person couldn’t imagine.

She is seeking support, friendship and acceptance into the military community.I met women who claimed to have been in a marriage where there was no sex, the men never paid then any attention, they were great cooks, and looking for a man who…well let’s face it ladies, men don’t read past the “I need sex” part. And therein lies how I lost lots of money sending money for plane tickets, passports, babysitters, etc. They scuba dive, skydive, fly, write, or even if you just plant flowers and raise a cockatoo that’s fine. That is the information that grounds a person’s description. So when you ask about us, we are really eager to share info about us! Good, now you can move on to Phase 2 and ask question you don’t want your mother to know you have asked. The scammers know how to get us, just like they know how to get you. After a few emails from women who needed sex I learned to ignore them, true or not. In other words, be a person of substance and have your own experiences to bring to the table. We will tell you about the countryside here, the people, where we trained, how we got here, what the food is like, what we do for the holidays, where we want to go on leave, where we have gone, where we have been stationed before, when we joined, why we joined, what our family thought of us joining, what our life goal is, do we want or have kids, what they like, why they make us laugh, what we miss most about home, what we miss least about home. In all this, the best advice I can give is to never settle. Plenty of folks join at 18 and get out at 38, so when you meet a guy in the military who is over 40 and divorced his head is usually spinning from things going on around him. Send me a picture of you sitting at the computer looking at my web page or our emails. But I can verify all of that with my social networking accounts or other info. (If he says he is locked out or needs a new password then say fine, see you in 24 hours).

By the way, in the Army we call that guy “Jody.” When we are at war, “Jody” stays home and fools around with your wife or girlfriend. They are the parasites who take the place of the military service member. Or they need money to build an orphanage or buy stuff for kids or pay a bill back home. Go to Wells Fargo and deposit money to account 1234. While deployed I needed money transferred from one bank to another and had a friend physically go to the bank and move money, but it never involved Western Union or Moneygram an definitely not a third party. Send me pictures of happy American life that I am fighting for. I have lived in a hotel while deployed, even had a rental car. I worked on things that were classified and that’s all you’ll hear about it. While deployed my marriage died, my mother died, and my dog died. Do not continue the chat if he cannot send you an email from a account. Military Singles Connection provides online personals services, including online profiles and photographs of single men and women, chat rooms and an instant messenger – to enable others to communicate in real time, a private mailbox to enable others to exchange personal messages, a public forum to enable others to exchange messages and information… She is angry at me for being in the Army, I am mad at her for running off with a mutual friend. I only need permission from my chain of command for leave and travel is usually free from where I am to the states. If I have money issues I am not going to be looking into dating sites at that time. If I truly desperately needed cash I’d ask for a deposit to a stateside bank. Send me a magazine about a hobby I like that is from this month. Other military dating services can’t compete with the number of quality members or features you’ll find when you join the top Military singles dating site.



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